Hi Opposite Sex!
Posted by Cindy Tey on July 9, 2009
A girl is like a baby pink silk cushion – soft, pretty, elegant, sexy… All that pink fluffy thing living on cotton clouds with silver linings. Boys find them annoying, but that is why they are attracted to girls. Because of the opposite. The hole in front & not the hole at the back? Yeah. That’s one way to put it.
When I first got my new cell, I took care of it like a girl would. She wore a chain with a dainty pendant, lived in a warm crystal pouch… every gesture I did I care so much about how she would feel. (just in case i pressed her keypads too hard, you know?) Today, it doesn’t take much effort for one to see the obvious scratches on her screen. Does that mean I love her less now?
Maybe.
Now all the boys and girls are grown-up. When a guy falls in love with lil missy, he appreciates this wonderful creation of God – her lovely features, her curves, the texture of her skin… She feels like the baby pink silk cushion he didn’t use to know.
He loved her like how I loved my cell. He bought her a chain with a dainty pendant hanging on it, he made sure each time he hugs her, his arms turns into the warm crystal pouch armored with perfect security. Carefully, he picked his words to avoid pushing her wrong buttons, you know? (The PMS) Today, they are like every other couple. Does that mean his love for her has lessened?
Possibly.
Many girls think that the more drama or pain is involved in a relationship, the more romantic it is. The act of loving somebody you can never have; that is romantic, but not right, is it? I am a girl, and I am a (very hopeless) romantic. But today, I love my phone the way that man loved his woman. What do you think is the cause of this?
If a man would be smart enough to only start loving the woman he picks to love for the rest of his life, love would not drain away just like every other couple’s. After all, long long ago, women were not allowed to leave their man (ever read Henrik Ibsen’s ‘A Doll’s House’?), But what changed things in this century?
Men.
They love women for what they are and then use these soft, pretty, pinkish silky cushions’ elegance till they wear off – then they seek another new sexy pillow to hug. It has sadly become the nature of these things.
As much as anybody would despise the word ‘distance’, it is distance & only ‘distance’ that could test & prove how strong one’s relationship is with someone. There’s always a way when there’s will to make things better. Therefor in this situation, ‘explanation’ is only a nicer replacement for the word ‘excuse’; which always tags along with a 100 reasons. Everything happens for a reason, of course there’s an explanation for everything. (DUH~)
Why state the obvious?
You know, what a woman need is for you to listen when she is upset. So shove your reasoning up your ass for sunnier, brighter days. At least the worse you could do is to make her day cloudy and not a heavy downpour.
If men can sit on our lovely pink cushions till their shininess wears off, their dicks should be like the string of a kite – Tease, pull back, tug, then let go. As much as he might deny & disapprove of you saying this, he will come back to you as a ‘kite’, & not that runaway ball you held so tight it slips right through your hands for the 1000th times.
12:12 AM by i.

ahahhahaa the content is so familiar wan…
“You know, what a woman need is for you to listen when she is upset. ”
I totally agree with this sentence!
I so so so agree with this whole post.
Very very well written. Me love!
hi hi..glad ya up and bloggin again! so sorry bt yr old domain…..
“They love women for what they are and then use these soft, pretty, pinkish silky cushions’ elegance till they wear off – then they seek another new sexy pillow to hug. It has sadly become the nature of these things.”
“As much as anybody would despise the word ‘distance’, it is distance & only ‘distance’ that could test & prove how strong one’s relationship is with someone. ”
very true as well =| -hugs-
Hah. Mars & Venus.
Listen? Problem is girls don’t straight talk. They hint or babble 20 words when 10 will do. Guys listen to each other, we know what the other guy means, no need to second guess. Girls play their stupid little head games, and even sometimes expect you to read their minds/
If guys didn’t “listen”, how come guys can get along so well with each other, and work splendidly in great companies building most of the world’s most amazing things while most of their wives just know about shopping? I’d say all the guys in Apple, or Samsung, or Honda know how to communicate really well to be able to do what they did. Cause they talk straight. So – guys don’t listen >> moose kaka! It’s girls who try to hint too damn much.
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